Focus on the clitoris. Unless you’re Gene Simmons, you can’t possibly hope to stimulate her vagina with your tongue. Instead, your obvious target is the clitoris. Take it easy, since touching it directly can quickly overwhelm your bride – perhaps even causing her a little discomfort. Warm up to it by licking around it. Then move in all the way.
Get into a rhythm. As you stimulate her clitoris, pay attention to your own rhythm. Don’t attack it blindly. If you have slow music playing in the room, follow the beat. Otherwise, it can help to count in your head or silently roll over a familiar song. When she starts to respond, speed up to match her rhythm, without going too fast.
Follow her signals. Over time, you’ll learn to decode her moans and gasps. Whatever you do, maintain your pace. Don’t speed up just because she’s breathing more heavily – it’s your rhythm that’s getting her excited, not your speed.
Stay focused, and keep it simple. Some guys just overthink oral sex. Your bride doesn’t want you to discover some amazing new technique that you can brag about on the Internet. Really, everything that’s possible has been tried at least once, and it’s the tried and true that really works. For example, please don’t give her the “raspberries” down there, unless you want to spend the night sleeping on the floor with a noticeable bruise. And, whatever you do, don’t try to blow into her. She is not a balloon, even if you suspect parts of her are plastic.
Astound her with this pro move. If you can roll your tongue into a semi-cylinder or a “U” shape, use it to cradle her clitoris. Then, slide it gently towards her and away from her. Prepare for the good kind of screaming.