Perhaps you never expected to find yourself face to face with a wall of plastic sex toys. Did you fall in love with a sex fiend without realizing it? Take heart, since today’s open attitudes to sexuality allow us to explore our bodies in unprecedented and unusual ways. You’re no deviant; you’re just in a loving, committed relationship. The toys can help you keep things interesting...
Shopping for Sex Toys. Contrary to popular belief, you no longer have to get buzzed in to a scummy looking porn shop in the underbelly of your city just to go shopping for sex toys. In fact, most adult novelty shops are owned by family-oriented entrepreneurs that want to create a safe space for couples to explore their sexuality.
At the same time, many common sex toys have gone mainstream over the past few years. If you look hard enough, you can even find sex toys at well-known shops like The Sharper Image. Don’t be shy – ask questions and solicit recommendations. Like any store owner, your sex toy salesperson will want to convert you into a lifelong customer.
Vibrators. The classic sex toy for women is experiencing resurgence since being celebrated in popular television shows like Sex and the City and The L Word. You can find vibrators in all kinds of sizes and shapes, from a discreet “personal massager” to the infamous “pink bunny.”
Some guys worry that a vibrator will replace them. Instead, experts suggest that you take an active role in pleasuring your bride. Even the best vibrator can’t replace the arousal she feels when you’re in the room. Learn to use the vibrator to steer her over the edge as an opening act for your one-on-one action.